biking with the wind blowing me...

yeah, hoping that my mind makes some sense in writing. my sense of black and white in matters relating to life and thoughts are becoming blurred - i hope not by the influence of new age but rather by the influence and my human understanding of the grace of God. i want these recordings to become a reminder of God's faithfulness in my golden days.
So, welcome my friend, let's learn together. I beckon you.

Friday, October 21, 2005

About Babies

I need to actively start searching for my other whole, right NOW. I don't want to start having babies in my late twenties, so ideally I need to get married in maybe 2 years, have a year or 2 to enjoy marriage, then make some babies after that. Read this. So anyone interested? ;) Email me to talk about this. LOL. =)


one life to live,
gracey

23 comments:

J-mes said...

aiyo grace..
u sound so desperate here la
my offer is only valid till 2009 ok

Ken said...

don't worry la grace.

1 - you don't look ugly (in fact, u look fine =) ok?)

2 - love takes time. Time to start, time to build up. Same goes for marriage.

3 - Don't worry about how late you have kids. AS long as you don't have kids after 40 you're fine lol. Worry more about whether you can support the kids.

And then again, number 2 comes first, then number 3.

So chill out, and see what God has planned for you.

Oh
DESPERATE!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

agree agree...u sound so DESPERATE lor.. worst than me!

Anonymous said...

Heheheh you ahhh... me also sikit like dat!!! =P i wanna have kidsss!!! but i scareeeeeddd! I wish to find my other whole too... =( seem so long! hehe i guess God will soon provide us with one.. but we have to be patient.. as we slowly survey and get approval from our Father in Heaven.

Yeah i agree to Ken. Whatever he said...

Anonymous said...

can fry fish, sure can get married ler. no worries, u are blessed by my gods.

De Kiwi said...

hahah aiyoh grace... when i get back i have to lecture you now!
i understand how you feel though, but trust in God, He will bring the 'right' one, now the 'right now' one.
Don't be hasty, it's an investment for the rest of your whole life. but yeah.. once u find urs, can u find one for me too??? ;)

gRaCeY said...

James: Huh? Until 2009 only ah? That leaves me 3 years to get one? Ok la, I'll gambatte!

Ken: After reading my post again, I think I do sound a bit desperate. LOL. Doesn't mean I'll settle for any Tom, Dick or Harry. Heheh. But I want at least 4 kids what. So I need an upper middle class husband. Then he can support my kids. LOL.

Lisa: I ter-read the article on MSN, so just wanted to give my thought on this. LOL. Didn't know would have such a great response from my readers!

Lizzie: I'll be patient, I promise! If I haven't been, I wouldn't be here still single after 21 years of life on earth! Heheh.

Zhern Yuen: LOL. Can fry fish doesn't equal getting married.

De Kiwi: Can't wait to have you back! Must spend some time with you since I might not be around the whole of Jan and Feb. =(

ROTFL

Anonymous said...

Hey hey.. I can sort of understand how you feel.. Seriously if you want 4 (my gosh that's alot man), and you want all of them before 40 or the most also the last kid in ur 40s (by this I assume you won't be giving birth one each year), a bit tough lah, unless u get married early.. But just go with the flow lor.. I feel like you too, but with my future profession, it's way difficult..

gRaCeY said...

Dream is dream. Doesn't mean I can do it or will definitely do it. How come you guys take this post more seriously than I? LOL. First of all, must find one who wants to have so many kids! Not every guy loves kids, don't even talk about nurturing them!

Anonymous said...

yeah, the degree of seriousness in this post is scary.

...commitment

*runs to hide
AHHHHHHHHHHHHzy

Anonymous said...

Gracey...
Haha..don't worry :)
It takes guts 2 b honest about this stuff..
I guess everyone has some degree of desperateness too...just a matter of if they admit it or not..
And yea...girl's biological clock ticks faster too..Haha

Well, He knows the plans He has for you, plans to prosper (financially and biologically to multiply..haha), and plans not to harm you..

So yea, God will provide, even as I remind myself every single day...
:)

Anonymous said...

slow and steady wins the race...ahahah

gRaCeY said...

Zhern Yuen: Like you know me well like that. =P

Sarah: Amen to what you said. The post was a stress releaser as I want to see what kind of responses I get. Teehee. A success!

Phil: Slow and steady and wait till I'm forty? ;)

Ken said...

but still win the race :)

Anonymous said...

haha.. Ken you always have the funniest comment.. Grace, this issue is serious wat, no?? Wait to go, Grace.. I'm sure you'll find your other one at the right time..

Mark said...

Ok, honestly when I read this I couldn't help laughing because this is not the Grace I know. Apparently someone has been biten by the baby bug. 4 is a good number because since God said to be fruitful and multiply, having 1 or 2 will not cut it. Its simple logic, if a couple have 1 baby, that is not multiplying because the multiplication ratio is only 0.5. If they have 2 then the multiplication ratio is only 1. In conclusion, a minimum of 3 is required. Now if only this will work on Chuen :P

gRaCeY said...

Mavik: Finally, someone who thinks this is funny and unlike meeeeee!!!! Let me help you convince Chuen, ok? LOL. ;)

Jonathan said...

hey grace.. God's guy will come for you soon enough.. in the meantime, dun forget being single is a gift too! :-)

Mark said...

Yes, please do. Next time you see her please indicate that to her ok? hahaha

gRaCeY said...

Jon jon: Yeah, that's so true! I think I'll lament the opposite when I'm attached already. LOL.

Mavik: No prob! Now I need to know which way is the best. ;)

Anonymous said...

yo~ cool! :)

errmm.. i'm getting married in more than 5 years from now.. hopfully, no financial constraints..
if better, i'd get married in 3 years! yeah! that's the way to go

grace, go girl! :) u r right.. enjoy the marriage 1st.. go romanticing..travelling (can b anywhere).. before start making babies.. that's CORRECT

will pray for u!! :

gRaCeY said...

LOL. That's Jason right? For a moment there, I thought it was my best friend! LOL. Thanks. Hehe. Not many years left! ;)

_ said...

LOL...eh...y so sampat wan your blog...lol..now only i comment..sorry lah...i hav exams...LOL! So many comments! i tot they were all advertisements...oh wells, next thing you know, a guru will drop a comment! bahaha.....eh, u must study pak-tho-loghy first la! (thats pak tho in cantonese meaning dating..for the slow ones.. -..-) ohh..im blogging here...better stop!haha...bah! All the best in finding your abu bakar!